Wednesday, 6 November 2013


They started as a couple till success hit them hard, one more than the other.The obvious happened. Now that one of them is itching to move on the lady in question threw a massive fit and is refusing to let go of him. What does she have on him to hold him? Well a goodwill contract they had drawn up in fun in their salad days. Although SHE is the one who violated the terms of the contract and screwed up the friendship, the lady doesn’t want to let her partner off the hook any sooner than she absolutely has to. She continues to call and text and email him relentlessly, trying to get together with him, determined to keep the charade going, even though he doesn’t even want to see her! It is GUILT loud and clear. She knows that she is the one who screwed up the friendship by screwing around with someone else. She keeps hoping that if she hangs on and hangs around long enough that he will forgive her and they can go back to being close friends. She doesn’t have many other close friends in her life.

When they were a “couple”, they spent all their time together and he was her closest friend. She refuses to accept the fact that since she humiliated him he doesn’t really want to be friends with her any more. She knows that he is a nice guy and a true professional, and that – no matter how badly she has behaved – he won’t stoop so low as to publicly berate her, embarrass her, or disclose the terms of the contract. She is counting on that to give her the opportunity to work her way back into his life. She knows that the fame that she experienced during the height of their coupledom will dissipate quickly unless she gets him (or someone like him??) for good! The truth is that she loves the fame and attention and she is scared that once it is gone that she will never get it back! Now, everyone in this scenario – except her – thinks that she is being incredibly immature and selfish.

He just wants to move on with his life, but he can’t until she releases him. So, she is determined, he is annoyed, and their publicists are in a fix to try to work out a compromise. Our advise ?  He helped you achieve fame and fortune and popularity, and, in return, you screwed him over. Hanging on to the relationship tooth and nail just because you legally can now just makes you look sad and desperate. So let him go and get a life ASAP

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